SARAH SLEAN–THE SINGER KNOWS WHO SHE IS AND WHAT SHE WANTS
This is Part 8 in a series of articles about the “Self.”
Sarah Slean is a Canadian songwriter/singer who knows who she is and what she wants.
She wants to continue to compose songs, sing them and study everything in the world for the rest of her life.
She is a beautiful, talented and unusual composer and performer who found herself at sea about some years ago regarding what she was doing with her career.
Slean was interviewed by Ben Kaplan of the National Post
The singer said had an existential crisis and asked herself if what she was doing was not “pure vanity.”
She said she stashed her stuff, “…rented a truck, put my grand piano in the back and went into the forest and lived there for four months in the spirit of ‘I’m waiting for direction because I give up on everything.'”
It was in 2005 and the singer had been told many things about how to run her career by many people and I guess it got confusing so she quit for a while to paint, read books and write music.
When Slean emerged, she told Kaplan:
“Everything in my life took an upward swing–I fell in love…I graduated university, I mended fences.
I felt such peace…Finally I know what I want to do.”
She’s nearly 40 now and her mini-crisis is over.
We all have these crises and they don’t have to occur in mid-life (which, by the way, some authorities are saying is anywhere around the mid-thirties!)
Our first job in life is to know who we are and find out what it is we want from life.
If we don’t ever do that…and many people never do it… we wind up with an unexamained life.
THE UNEXAMINED LIFE
“The unexamined life is not worth living,” said Socrates and it’s true.
Slean is like many Canadian performers who are not in the mega-star category (unlike say, Diana Krall, Celine Dion, or k.d. Lang).
In terms of public awareness she’s more like Emilie Claire Barlow, Patricia O’Callaghan or Jill Barker excellent performers who have their own dedicated audiences.
She is classically trained musician and that’s plainly seen on her website videos (http://www.sarahslean.com).
But she has a pop quality too: different, mature, funny and engaging.
Slean has a new double CD set called Land and Sea. A great song from it is Attention Archers. There are several versions of it on YouTube.
Some of the music on her site on on her CDs might strike you as unusual but that’s the idea-Try several–you’ll like them!
If you are searching for the real you, as Sarah Slean was, sign up to my email list and get my free Ebook,
FOUR QUESTIONS TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE!
We all have to change things in ourselves occasionally (some people would say constantly!).
If you feel it’s time for a change in some way, please accept my invitation.
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If you have a problem with time management, personal goals, choosing a career path, the inability to choose a life partner (maybe you consistently date the wrong people) or any other troublesome area, you can help solve it with self-knowledge and I can teach you how to do that.
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I’m with you.
-Frank
Previous Post:
Part 1: Do you find yourself or create it? And why bother anyway?
Part 2: Searching for yourself? Flying blind? Need a new search party?
Part 3: Be yourself. Everybody else is taken!
Part 4: Self discovery without viagra.
Part 5: Selfish vs Selfless (in women)
Part 6: Selfish. Always wrong?
Part 7: Selfishness, in the family.
Up next:
Part 9: Whatever you do, don’t be yourself!
Frank Daley
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647-205-5059
356 Westridge Drive , Waterloo, Ontario, Canada